'Tis the season to be kind. I have been trying to explain this to my little ones.  It’s not about the presents and lights and cookies. The spirit of the season is all about being kind to one another. Our family even created a “Kindness Challenge” to up the stakes. Each of us will try to practice 100 acts of kindness before Christmas Day. We made a chart and everything. We are totally committed. The more I pressed this message with the kids though, the more I noticed my own ac